One of the underlying themes of sexual addiction is the ability to blame your spouse for all the problems and issues within your relationship. The downward spiral of finger pointing and blame leads only to a dead end, where one ponders how they got there. So often the true abuser has no perception of reality, especially those dealing with sexual addictions.
For a vivid look at the pain, destruction, torment, and eventuality of sexual promiscuity follow this link and read the comments at the end of the article. If you feel like reading the article fine, but it is the emotion and pain personified in the comments that is so eye opening.
